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    <h3 class="article-title">复旦教授的育儿秘籍，让孩子不补课也能成学霸</h3>
    <div class="article-meta-content"><em class="article-date article-media-meta">2018-01-08</em><a
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                <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">沈奕斐，复旦大学社会发展与公共政策学院副教授，复旦大学家庭发展研究中心主任。她的两个孩子，女儿已经上初中，几乎没有在外补过什么课，女儿小学成绩一般，但现在已是个学习能力超强的小学霸。</span>
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                <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">儿子幼儿园，逻辑思维和反应能力比一般孩子都快。她深信鼓励是门艺术，家长要不断让孩子“优势积累”；在她家，还有一个场景非常常见：全家人一起玩游戏。她又有什么教育的秘籍呢？</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp;什么是“优势累积法”？</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在我看来，就是找到孩子任何一点优势，并表扬他，让它在孩子这里变成可复制的行为，不断让孩子认识到自己的能量。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有的家长会问我，孩子毛病实在太多怎么办？<span
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                        style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我的答案是，假装看不到孩子的这些缺点，但只要他有小优点，就要让他清楚知道。</strong></span></span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">因为，关注问题并不解决问题。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">拿孩子写字这件事举例。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果我们总爱在旁边跟孩子说：“宝宝，你这样写不行哦，妈妈教你，这个字应该这样写。”“宝宝，姿势要坐端正哦，这样写字才会更好看。”……</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">看起来，家长说这些时候的语气是温和又具有引导性的，<span
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                        style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">实际上，还是在挑孩子的错。</strong></span></span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在这里，如果用“优势积累”的做法，应该这样做：哪怕看到孩子坐姿不怎么好，字写得不怎么样，下笔也错误，但如果我看到孩子落笔是正确的，那么我就会说：“宝宝，你看你能把字都写在框里了，很厉害。”</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">下次碰到他某个笔画比如一撇或一捺写得好的时候，我就会夸夸他这个笔画下笔很稳。做错了的话，就采取忽视态度。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">这样一来，这些好的细节很容易就会变成习惯保留下来，而且孩子会越做越好。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">现在很多人在强调正面管教，我个人并不排斥对孩子需要积极地正面管教，我也认可其中的一些很好的方法。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">但在我看来，正面管教的理论来源来自于西方，而西方心理学，建立的文化基础是偏个人主义的。所以它更适合美国的孩子，虽然提倡温和而坚定，但也强调“关注问题”，其实是不那么适合中国文化的。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在美国，不管是学校文化还是家庭教育的文化，是很少有人去批评孩子的，大家不会去关注孩子的问题。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">但中国文化其实是一个“挑错”文化，中国妈妈天天在关注孩子哪里做得不好需要改进，我们关注的更多是“问题”。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">哪怕某天我在公共场合抱孩子的方法不对，路边的一个老太太都可以指出我的各种错误。我们不仅是跟孩子之间，陌生人跟陌生人之间也都受这种挑剔文化的影响。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们觉得这是帮助他人成长，我们用80%的时间在关注问题，我们相信解决问题才是成长的道路。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">所以，在一个大家都比较挑剔，一直把问题作为关注点的文化中，如果你还强调“关注问题”，这就意味着孩子一直处于被挑剔的处境中，压力是很大的。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在学校被关注问题，在家里也被关注问题，他没有美国孩子所享受的那个80%没有原则的赞美鼓励时间，他都在被寻找问题，即使你是很温柔的提醒，但是再怎么温柔，你依然是在找差错。孩子依然不爽。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">这就是为什么很多家长用温柔而坚定的方法，到孩子一定的年龄就不管用了，因为你背后的挑错意识他时能感受到的，无论你是赞美还是鼓励，你的行为都告诉他：你只看到他的问题。温柔而坚定只是你的一个幌子而已。</span>
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        <strong style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span
                    style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br/></span></strong>
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                    style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span
                        style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子以后的发展，我认为，都是“玩”出来的</span></strong></span><strong
                style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span
                    style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">。</span></strong><span
                style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">所以我一直对家长强调说，游戏很重要，学习也可以在游戏中实现。</span><br/>
        </p>
        <p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue',
        Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; white-space: normal;
        max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 1px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify; box-sizing:
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br
                    data-filtered="filtered"
                    style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span>
        </p>
        <p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue',
        Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; white-space: normal;
        max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 1px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify; box-sizing:
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">那么，怎么能够让家庭里面有游戏化的概念出来呢？在我们家，我们和孩子们玩各种桌游，比如卡牌，棋类游戏等。</span>
        </p>
        <p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue',
        Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; white-space: normal;
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                    data-filtered="filtered"
                    style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span>
        </p>
        <p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue',
        Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; white-space: normal;
        max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 1px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify; box-sizing:
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">拿数学学习来说，低年龄段的数学无非就是计算，近似值这些知识点，完全可以在游戏中解决。我儿子的幼小衔接就是在我和老公陪着他玩的过程中做好的。</span>
        </p>
        <p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue',
        Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; white-space: normal;
        max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 1px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify; box-sizing:
        border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">
        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br
                    data-filtered="filtered"
                    style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span>
        </p>
        <p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue',
        Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; white-space: normal;
        max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 1px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify; box-sizing:
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">比如，我跟孩子玩“小鸭农场”的游戏解决近似值的问题，孩子每次都会玩的不亦乐乎，几乎每次都会进行加时赛。</span>
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        Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; white-space: normal;
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">为了锻炼孩子观察力，我们玩“GOGO碰”游戏</span>
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        Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; white-space: normal;
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br
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        Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; white-space: normal;
        max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 1px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify; box-sizing:
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">这个游戏的卡牌一面是物体，另一面是英文单词，奇妙的是，任意两张卡牌之间，都有某一样东西是一样的，孩子们可以在不同图片上寻找相同的物体，也可寻找与物体相对应的单词。这个在锻炼观察力的同时，也锻炼孩子英文识别力。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">为了练习</span><span
                style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">10</span><span
                style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">以内的加法，我们玩</span><span
                style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“</span><span
                style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">加</span><span
                style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">10</span><span
                style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">赛</span><span
                style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">”</span><span
                style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">游戏</span><span
                style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br
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        Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; white-space: normal;
        max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 1px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify; box-sizing:
        border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">
        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br
                    data-filtered="filtered"
                    style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"/></span>
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        <p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue',
        Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; white-space: normal;
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">这个游戏就是一堆不同数字的牌，如果看到里面哪两个数字加起来等于10，赶紧按铃铛。</span><span
                style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">这个游戏对孩子的计算、反应、观察和记忆都是一个很大的锻炼。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 15px;">除了在不知不觉中进行学习，我认为，游戏还有另外两个好处</span></p>
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                <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">一，增强孩子与父母之间亲子关系。我平时看到的太多的玩具都是孩子一个人玩，这样既没有“玩”应有的效果，也没有增强亲子互动。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">一</span><span
                style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; line-height: 1.75em; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">个人的成就感，很多时候来自于工作和职位。但幸福感，主要来自于家庭。</span><br
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在我家，玩游戏这件事情对爸爸回家之后的幸福感提升特别有好处。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我先生以前的工作特别忙，我跟他说，研究表明，爸爸不参与家庭教育，孩子当然也不会发展得不好。但是，如果你不参与，当孩子到青春期的时候，什么都不会跟你说，你会留有遗憾的。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">他听我这么一说，就开始每天回家之后“扮演起爸爸”的角色，如何扮演呢？最常见的就是，他回到家里会问这样的话：</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">宝宝，今天在学校怎么样啊？</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有什么快乐的事情吗</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有什么不快乐的事情吗</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有什么需要爸爸帮助的吗？</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">尽管他看起来问的很”亲民“，但孩子给他的答案基本就是“没有”。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">他很苦恼，找不到原因。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我跟他说，因为你以前不陪孩子玩，没有和孩子培养起感情，孩子们和你不亲近当然不会愿意与你分享咯。</span>
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        <p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue',
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">所以我当时想了个办法：我对孩子们做了规定，家里所有的游戏只有等爸爸回来才可以玩，爸爸不回来就不可以玩游戏。这样一来，爸爸每次回来后，会参与进他们玩的游戏中去，亲子互动在不知不觉中增强了。</span>
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                <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">二，玩游戏也是教育孩子的过程。在游戏的过程中，经常会爆发出来不同的问题，比如，如何教孩子认识“输”。</span>
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                <span style="font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: pre-wrap;">当他们输了的时候，孩子会非常较真，如何引导他们正确认识和面对“输”，就很重要。</span><br/>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我家会有很多“快乐惩罚”，比如考拉抱。谁输了谁就要用考拉的方式抱另一个人，并对对方说“我爱你”。</span>
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        <p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue',
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">这样的方式，孩子就不会觉得惩罚是一件特别难过的事情。</span><span
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br
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        <p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue',
        Helvetica, 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: medium; white-space: normal;
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在家里，我还推荐家长可以与孩子玩一些跟身体运动有关的游戏。比如，爸爸站在小地毯上，妈妈跟宝宝一起把爸爸推出去，记录推出去需要花的时间，不断突破记录。</span>
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                    <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 17px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong
                                style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span
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                                    style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(38, 38, 38); letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: pre-wrap; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">做家长更要培养批判性思维，理性思考</span></strong></span>
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        <p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; font-family: 'Helvetica Neue',
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">很多专家都在强调跟孩子的智慧沟通，我认为，智慧沟通的前提是家长一定要具有一定的批判性思维，理性思考问题，学会启发式提问。</span><br
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">要学会这种批判性思维，首先要确定问题到底是什么。</span>
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        <p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 1px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">
            <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">比如，有家长经常问我，孩子拖拉怎么办？</span>
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        <p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 1px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">
            <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在处理这个问题前，我们要先了解，孩子拖拉的原因到底是什么？在解决拖拉问题的时候，起码家长要知道自己家孩子的问题到底在哪里。</span>
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        <p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 1px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">
            <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">是自己心急呢，还是孩子本来动作就就慢呢？孩子表现拖拉，为什么说孩子是拖拉的？有什么证据说孩子拖拉？孩子早上用了十分钟系鞋带是为什么？</span>
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            <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在我看来，拖拉无非就是以下这4种原因：</span>
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        <p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 1px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">
            <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">第一种，孩子个性本身是慢吞吞的</span>
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        <p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 1px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">
            <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">第二种，父母的节奏与孩子的节奏不一样，有时候并不是孩子慢，只是与父母的节奏不一样而已。</span>
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                    <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br
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        <p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 1px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">
            <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">第三种，孩子碰到问题，自己没办法解决，他困惑了。这种尤其是在做作业的时候出现得多。</span>
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        <p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; clear: both; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 1px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">
            <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">第四种，就是孩子故意要跟家长对着干。</span>
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            <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">你看，我们只有知道问题到底是什么，才能去寻找解决的办法。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">还有家长说，孩子写字习惯不好怎么办？</span><br
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">那我想我们首先得问自己，什么是好的写字习惯？好的写字习惯有哪些表现？是坐姿要端正？而众所周知，坐姿其实完全取决于孩子的手腕发育的力量，很多时候并不是习惯问题。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">还有人说，坐下来屁股不能左右扭动，但我认为这其实是个性的问题。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">实际上每个孩子都不一样，没有一种教育方式是能够针对所有的孩子都管用的。不管采用什么样的育儿方法，我建议家长们都要先观察，了解自己的孩子，具备理性的态度。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我的一个朋友在这方面做得很好。比如有一次，她的孩子跟他说，同学们讥笑他。很多家长在听到孩子这种控诉的时候，肯定首先觉得同学们不对，孩子被欺负了。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">但朋友问孩子：你为什么认为别人是讥笑你呢？</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子回答：同学们看他的一个行为忍不住哈哈大笑。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">她这时候对孩子是这样说的：人家控制不住的笑与有意识的讥笑或嘲笑是不一样的。在妈妈看来，他们并没有讥笑你，而就是一时忍不住的笑，并没有恶意。你想想看，是不是？</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">当然，我只是很简单的描述了这样一件事情，但它足以告诉我们，<span
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">说到这里，我推荐大家看一本书《学会提问》，在作者看来，具有批判性思维的人有三个特点：</span>
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                    <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">一是有「问题意识」，对于别人的观点，不是一股脑儿全盘接受；</span>
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                    <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">二是有「提出关键问题的能力」，对于别人的观点，能提出切中要害的问题；</span>
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                    <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">三是有「解答关键问题的能力」，能够解答自己提出的关键问题，做出理性的选择。这本书的目的就是通过提升这三个方面的能力，来帮助你通过提出关键问题，锻炼批判性思维能力。</span>
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">这本书里面还有10个工具，用这十个工具反复去练习相信对大家会很有帮助。<br
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        <span style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">之所以我这么强调家长要具备批判性思维，要理性思考的重要性，是因为当孩子越来越大，尤其是到青春期的孩子，碰到孩子向你求助时，如果你给孩子一个问题解决的方式不能让他信服，或者如果你不能帮他找到问题的原因，长此以往，孩子与父母之间隔阂会增大，孩子容易产生的问题也会更多。</span>
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